Friend "Withdrawals"

This past weekend I attended the American Christian Fiction Writer’s conference. As you can see from a couple of the pictures there were lots of smiles, but there were also plenty of hugs, and—although it’s not captured in the pictures—plenty of talking. For someone used to sitting alone in front of a computer several hours a day, the only voices being those in my head from my characters, all this real, live human contact might have been overwhelming.

But right now, home where it’s comparatively quiet, I’m finding myself feeling like I’m having withdrawals from the heady intoxication of constant friendship, endless chatter and emotional connection so available among a group sharing a love of Christ and a love of writing.

Of course here at home I have friends, too—my very best friend being my husband. But I must say it was awfully nice to have a pajama party for the last three nights. Siri Mitchell and I didn’t get much more than a few hours sleep each night, choosing to stay up late talking instead, then up early to make it for breakfast—where we chatted some more only with a table full of other friends.

Having had such a good time, it amazes me that often before I leave for a conference or even just a local party or other social gathering, my introvert feelings get in the way. I remind myself I’m not wired toward a lot of talking, mingling, general socializing. But then I get among friends, have the privilege of listening to others talk about things that interest them and I realize how fun it is to connect.

So what about you? Ever feel like you don’t want to do something, but once you’ve gotten past that initial reluctance, you actually enjoy yourself—even exceeding your best expectations? You may be fully eligible to be a member of the Hermit’s Club most of the time, but there might also be a side of you wanting that human connection.

Maybe because our Creator is intrinsically social Himself, and we’re made in His image.